In my last Blog Post, I said I would begin to discuss those unconscious habits that may no longer serve you and what to do about them. This post discusses the all too common situation of briefly setting down an item and then not being able to quickly find it.
Before I start, let’s agree that it will help if you assign a place for an item and then always put it back there. This is, of course, much easier to do if small children aren’t around.
The key to breaking habits is to pause at the critical moment to consider your options and only then continue. At first you won’t regularly pause. But keep trying, eventually you will.
Here are some options to consider when you pause:
Option 1: Get a grip
Consider not setting the item down at all. Obvious, right? If you don’t set it down, you won’t be looking for it all over. Evaluate what you’re holding. For example if it is something small and light like a bread bag twisty, you might grasp it lightly between your teeth. You’re unlikely to misplace it there.
Option 2: Got pockets?
If clenching it in your teeth isn’t appropriate, what about putting it in your pocket, assuming you have one? Of course, you’ll have to remember you put it there. Think of the old joke of the person looking for their glasses only to find them resting on their forehead.
Option 3: Corner the problem
Consider that a 3 foot by 5 foot table has over two thousand square inches. Plus, if the table has stuff on it or your vision is poor, finding what you set down can be even harder.
Now consider that most tables or counter tops likely have no more than four corners. If you get in the habit of setting things down on corner, you’ll only need to look in one or two places which could greatly reduce your frustration finding things.
Even kitchen counters may have inside or outside corners. If not, consider the corners of those fixed objects that sit on the counter top.
My next post will deal with reducing and dealing with dropping things.